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I broke the negative patterns that lead me to make bad choices in my life. It is all the more beautiful because you are a part of that world. Life coach recommends that those who are looking to avoid dating narcissists in the future would do well to slow down. I prefer steak and cake to rabbit food and pumpkin seeds. I had convinced him by morning to stay. You deserve to find the support and connection you need, and to heal from the abuse in your past.
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