And you keep stepping on his large toes. You just look so cute standing on that little ledge. You feel insecure about it, and that makes you feel like a huge dick. Probably a joke about not being able to get the two of you in the frame. Guys are supposed to be the tall ones, right?. You have to put away your heels and just resign yourself to wearing ballet flats for all eternity. You love him, but it can really be a bit much.
You sometimes feel like you should be exercising your ability to wear ridiculously high heels, even though you just want to wear flats. Wearing high heels is useless. Sometimes I would catch us in the store window and try to shrink down a little bit. When a guy is short, you feel fat. Sometimes, he hangs out with other tall friends and when they talk in a group, you kind of feel like a little kid in a circle of adults.
You never have a shortage of blanket. But no one ever hits on you when he is around. Wearing his clothes becomes absolutely hilarious on you. Evening walks soon turn into cardio workouts for you trying to keep up with him. It helps you feel less awkward about it.
Really tall guys often have nothing to prove. But even me -- a gal of 5 feet and 4 inches -- has problems. The short guys are the real winners. So they tell you about it all the time. But you do get a ton of forehead kisses! But I think it matters to a lot of girls. Luckily, he has an amazing personality, because he spent so long making up for his height.
He talks loudly, makes crazy jokes and always wants to be the life of the party. I mean, what else are you supposed to do? Your boyfriend loves a woman in heels … in theory. Traveling in the backs of cars and on planes means a ton of discomfort for him, and you wish you could give him some of your legroom just for him not to suffer. What do you want him to do, wear stilts? He uses your head as an armrest. Or you make sure to sit down at the same time. The only way you can get a decent picture of you two is when you are both seated. Being the little spoon is the Best.
The issue is that he is already self-conscious about his petite stature. But you do look good when he clicks a picture from above and also shorter than you really are. He may have a beautiful face, killer abs and a stellar personality, but all you or anyone else can seem to focus on is that your boo is a tiny little munchkin. Being able to wear any kind of heel is something we should all experience, because having to wear kitten heels or flats to an important event is completely sad. He is constantly trying to compensate.
That's just not in the cards for you, my friend. You used to love being a tall, sexy woman, but now it just feels like a problem over which you have zero control. He can just pick you up and take you anywhere. He was cute, but damn was he a shorty. Everyone asks you if he plays basketball.
He tries harder, and he's funnier and nicer than the tall douchebags who don't put in the effort. Really short girls are lucky, because every guy is a tall guy to them! In heels, I was a good three inches taller than him, and it felt so weird having this little guy kind of under my arm as we walked. Standing-up kisses can look hilariously awkward. We love them, we hate them, and sometimes we date them. Hey, not complaining — new moves! You feel sorry for him in airplanes and trains because you have all this excess legroom and he has none.
So you just hold on to his bicep which is cool, too. He likes to brag about his career and how successful he is. Friends asking if he has any brothers or friends or basketball teammates. Sometimes you have to call him over to reach things for you, which kind of makes you feel like a little kid. And so not worth the pain because he is still annoyingly tall.
But having a short guy on top of you is always slightly awkward. Of course, this can also happen with a tall guy. You wonder if he shops for boys' clothes, and it makes you uncomfortable. You take the brunt of the short-tall jokes that are guaranteed to come your way. Here are 11 very real truths about dating a guy who is shorter than you. Sometimes you just want to be thrown around in bed by a big, hot stud.